QUOTE(SouperNurse @ Mar 19 2007, 10:27 PM)

I see everything that you are SAYING....now tell me what you MEAN. What issues? What is it about you inside that keeps you so worried that your friends, family or readers will, for the sake of argument, JUDGE you. What is it that you have to come to terms with before you can really share all of yourself without being inhibited? And what is it that is deep down in your soul, that makes you unable to theorize about a work of art that may be a little perverted, or personal...what is REALLY keeping you from sharing that? The facts you have listed don't answer my questions...it has to be answered with feelings...something inside you is going on and you are not saying.
Well, that's because this is a public bulletin board with a lot of weird people, you know? I only like a handful of folks here and it's really not the place to be sharing stuff like this. My writing issues? I moderate a nice little LJ comm that deals with all of this kind of stuff,
Writer Scrutiny if you are really interested. This just isn't the forum for that kind of thing.
Besides, I don't think that one necessarily has to put one's entire self on the table to make a good piece of work. And that goes especially for writing fiction. If someone wanted to read about my issues they could read my blog. But if someone wants to read a fun time travel story, then they should be reading my manuscript.
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why why why? Why do you feel you have to keep yourself separated from your work? What are you afraid of?
Afraid of? It's not so much that--with writing, I mean--but that a novelist is really supposed to keep herself out of her work. Otherwise you start to get into self-insertion, and that's some of the worst shite out there to read. When people read a fiction novel, they don't want the author to intrude. That's just good writing. I suppose it's different with song-writing, although I will say this: part of the reason I prefer the self titled album to ABL is because I find ABL to be too emotionally involved. I prefer ideas to feelings, at least when it comes to music. That's just a personal preference.
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You're absolutely right. So what if all the Stephen King's and Stanley Kubricks of the world felt like this. I'm not judging you, just making some good conversation

What wonderful work would we have missed out on?
Well, lately SK has been putting himself into his novels in the form of either "Hi, it's me, Mr. King making an appearance in my own novel as myself!" (see: Dark Tower) or in the form of Gary Stu ("Hi! It's me making an appearance in my own novel in the form of a really awesome and good-hearted guy who gets hit by a car!") and I find that kind of played out and a little wanky. Which, don't get me wrong, I *heart* Stephen King. But it's author intrusion and it jars me out of the story. When he wrote his semi-autobiography
On Writing, I was glad to read about all of his issues, because it was in context. Otherwise, not so much.
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I would love to read some of your work
Nothing I like to hear more than that.

I semi-regularly post my stuff on that community.
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Here's another question: Is it possible, just possible that this is a HUGE part of the artists experience...making people think and interpret their work, rather than simply enjoying it or displaying it on your wall?
Sure, making people think and interpret is fine. But I feel like I'm skirting celebrity gossip with this one and celebrity gossip kind of makes my skin crawl. Jared is weird that way: he guards his privacy like mad, but then he wants people to think about what he's putting forth which seems like awfully personal stuff. So when it comes to dissecting "What might this mean?" I'm okay with that. It might represent the subjugation of women; it might have to do with something personal to Jared. But when it comes to "What does this mean and how does that pertain to his private life?" I just don't like to go there. And the same goes for the ones with Matt and Shannon, too. I can only assume there was a reason why they all saw what they saw in the video--Matt with the self flagellating guy and Shannon with the breast-feeding guy--but how it concerns their personal lives, well, it's not for me to say.
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So I'm throwing this out there to you...it's not for debate, or even necessarily for comment...but I belive that COURAGE is the greatest gift an artist or writer can possess. Far greater even than talent or imagination.
Sure, and it was a courageous move indeed if those really are personal issues that they are projecting in their video. However, I'm also not going to speculate on whether Jared feels that he
has (sic) odelisks* is seen by the public as a user of women or if Matt has some guilt issue or they are all gay because they have torn sleeves.**

~~J
*I bring that up because did Jared write it after all, it's sleazy no matter how you interpret it, and he spelled it wrong which is the funniest thing EVAR.
** At least not on the bulletin board. But you can bet I shot an email off to my Mom about that one.