gosh, way too many to name, either directly related to or as a result of being at a 30stm show. i have quite a few friends due to this band (which i will always be grateful for) and have traveled halfway around the country to see these guys (and their crew, a few whom we befriended in a bar after a show and i still keep in touch with one of them every now and then -- he's working for stevie wonder!)
i'd have to say my favorite show experience overall (pre-show, show and post-show/bus time) was probably cleveland in march 2007 (first time i'd heard "a modern myth" and i sobbed like a baby...personal meaning and all that). the show itself was amazing (despite a small amp fire lol) and it just has some of the best quotes i've heard at shows ("beautiful mary, here she comes!")...someone posted a video of the giant bear that jared was trying to hook up with tomo already

apparently that was a double-themed white night (the very first 'nights of the white shadow') and 'dress like the band' night, though i don't recall anyone else dressing up like the band, lmfao...which made their entrance hilarious as tomo bopped around onstage and saw our (very tall) friend jaime dressed like him (they had the same shirt on) and he started spazzing, lmao. later on in the signing line, we had to be cheesy and go "LOOK TOMO, IT'S TOMO!"
a few of my favorites from bus time:
someone came out with the cake, and jared was pretty adamant about people taking pictures of the cake. like, "TAKE A PICTURE OF THE CAKE. TAKE A PICTURE OF THE CAKE." lmao and then, the following happened.
[jared] *as if just realizing* the icing is black...
[me] *feigning offense* what's wrong with black? black is beautiful.
[jared] *stopping, looks at me, smiles* yes. it is.
(of course the whole holding-up-a-piece-of-cake gag was that night too, lol)
earlier during the show that night jared played a song he called "a silent scream" that he asked people not to record, etc, you all know the deal. before the picture-taking started, someone asked him about the song, to which he pretty much stated, "that's a gift. it's a gift for cleveland and if you put it online it makes it less special." and so on and so forth. (basically? don't spread it around, or else it'll become like the other secret songs from the self-titled album that people still manage to pass around and post.) and after all that? he added, "plus i fucking hate that song." LMAO
[us] we came all the way from florida!
[tomo] everyone's gotta come from somewhere. i came all the way from croatia. *grins and points*
whenever i hear people knocking jared for being conceited, rude, etc i always go back to this show. closer to the end of the night when jared was out by the buses, he seemed really floored/incredulous that 'from yesterday' was capable of reaching number one status. i asked him why, and he was like "i don't know, it's just that for so long, we've had doors slam in our faces, and i don't know. i just never thought it would be possible." and i just think about how there's a scared, vulnerable little person way beneath all that persona he tries to put out.
just too many good memories to not be one of my favorites! i'm sure there's tons more from other shows but that one always sticks out to me